Wednesday, April 19, 2006

You

You have become so part of me, its going to be so hard to let you go.
You have made me laugh, and made me cry.
You gave me numerous sleepless nights, while i think of ways to please you.
You have always been there, never moving from the place you took in my life.
You have let me see the good and the bad.
You gave me the happiest days, and the saddest days too.
You made me go through the ups and downs.
You have a way of making me go see you, come rain or shine.
You were the first comfort zone i went to after my first (and last) accident.
You were the first and will be the last.
You made me type this entry even while im backward in my preparation for the exams.
You . . will make me miss you when i leave you.

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You, NUS, may not have been the most exciting part of my education path, but I'll miss you all the same.
*Grins*






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Thursday, April 13, 2006

the Helper
Test finished!
you chose CX - your Enneagram type is TWO.

"I must help others"

Helpers are warm, concerned, nurturing, and sensitive to other people's
needs.

How to Get Along with Me

  • Tell me that you appreciate me. Be specific.

  • Share fun times with me.

  • Take an interest in my problems, though I will probably try to focus
    on yours.

  • Let me know that I am important and special to you.

  • Be gentle if you decide to criticize me.

    • In Intimate Relationships

  • Reassure me that I am intersting to you.

  • Reassure me often that you love me.

  • Tell me I'm attractive and that you're glad to be seen with me.

What I Like About Being a Two

  • being able to relate easily to people and to make friends

  • knowing what people need and being able to make their lives better

  • being generous, caring, and warm

  • being sensitive to and perceptive about others' feelings

  • being enthusiastic and fun-loving, and having a good sense of humor

What's Hard About Being a Two

  • not being able to say no

  • having low self-esteem

  • feeling drained from overdoing for others

  • not doing things I really like to do for myself for fear of being selfish

  • criticizing myself for not feeling as loving as I think I should

  • being upset that others don't tune in to me as much as I tume in to
    them

  • working so hard to be tactful and considerate that I suppress my real
    feelings
Twos as Children


  • are very sensitive to disapproval and criticism

  • try hard to please their parents by being helpful and understanding

  • are outwardly compliant

  • are popular or try to be popular with other children

  • act coy, precocious, or dramatic in order to get attention

  • are clowns and jokers (the more extroverted Twos), or quiet and shy
    (the more introverted Twos)
Twos as Parents


  • are good listeners, love their children unconditionally, and are warm
    and encouraging (or suffer guilt if they aren't)

  • are often playful with their children

  • wonder: "Am I doing it right?" "Am I giving enough?"

    "Have I caused irreparable damage?"

  • can become fiercely protective

Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

The Enneagram Made Easy

Discover the 9 Types of People


HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages


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